Should You Try To Seduce Her Now or Wait?
“Go for it now or later?”
The more I meet women the more I realize that waiting for the second date to hook up isn’t necessary. Fast seduction becomes more and more standard. A lot of things are possible on the first date, so try to get as far as you can. Don’t rush things, your goal is to start touching her when she’s waiting for it and wants it to happen. When that happens, two of you will have “sex thoughts” simultaneously.
And for that to happen you will need to clearly define your interest towards her body, but without taking it too far.
A few strategic, “accidental” touches in her near-intimate zone will do the trick:
Move your fingers across her shoulders, hold her waist while sliding your hand down for a second, grab her shoulders and pull her in to yourself, while slightly petting her neck and the back of her head. You can start doing more intimate things, but only after you’ve build up trust with her. More accurately, within half an hour or an hour. It’s important to pull her out of her “hang out” mode and take a few hours of her time.
Here are the steps that often lead to a very fast seduction:
1. When you’re just meeting women, inject sexual energy into the interaction by using eye contact flirting, intriguing pauses, confident body language, light touching, dominant gestures and straight, courageous talk.
2. Make her change her plans for the next few hours. You need to MOVE the woman away from the place where you’ve met – doesn’t matter where, you need to make her follow you so she recognizes you as the leader.
3. Taking her to the right place isn’t enough. You need to keep talking to her body by touching her. You also need to touch her to understand more about her, to get the feel for the situation and understand how much she’s really into you.
4. Pass her shit-tests. If you’ve done everything right the shit-tests will be as such:
- To check how persistent you are.
- To check how dominating and confident you are (She’ll challenge you by looking you straight in the eye, using words, actions)
If you pass all her shit-tests, you’ll get a “reward.” And don’t be afraid to use what Ovid wrote in his “The Art Of Love” a few thousand years ago:
“Perhaps she’ll struggle, and then say ‘you’re wicked’:
struggling she still wants, herself, to be conquered.
Only, take care her lips aren’t bruised by snatching,
and that she can’t complain that you were harsh.
Who takes a kiss, and doesn’t take the rest,
deserves to lose all that were granted too.
How much short of your wish are you after that kiss?
Ah me, that was boorishness stopped you not modesty.
Though you call it force: it’s force that pleases girls: what delights
is often to have given what they wanted, against their will.
She who is taken in love’s sudden onslaught
is pleased, and finds wickedness is a tribute.
And she who might have been forced, and escapes unscathed,
will be saddened, though her face pretends delight.”
5. Move on to making out and petting right on the spot. When your woman gets turned on she’ll let you know she’s ready to “get out of here” and go to the place where you can be alone.
Long Seduction
Probably their 3rd date…?In reality, fast seduction isn’t the only way to hook up with a woman. Many girls prefer to “marinate” a man for quite some time before they have sex with him.
The important point here is to avoid the mistake most men make:
In particular – don’t think too much about the woman BEFORE you have sex with her. It’s not good “management” to pour too much attention, thoughts and resources in the woman before you sleep with her anyway.
There’s a group of special techniques and strategies which you can use to create a prolonged “siege” of a woman’s bed, without spending too much time, energy and money. About that in our next course.
But you simply need to remember that before you sleep with a woman – she’s really nobody to you. Just one woman out of a million. This of course goes against women’s fantasies about courting and wooing and the games they play with men. This is exactly why the time works for you now (She gets used to you and you don’t really take her seriously) and against her (You’re pulling her resources of time, emotions and thoughts towards yourself).
Review Of Various Seduction Methods:
Briefly on methods, which you can use to take women:
1. Perseverance and patience
2. Arrogance and sexuality
3. Beauty
4. Money and status
5. Romance
1. Any man can break down the woman’s resistance sooner or later by strategically calling and persistently trying to hook up with her. Women can’t resist benevolent persistence of a man who isn’t letting her go. Women are amazed when a man, who obviously has no chances of getting with her, keeps trying to get together with her. She yields to his persistence and gives herself to him.
Why?
Because it’s an evolutionary mechanism – to get with a male who’s RELIABLE. Who could be more reliable then the guy who’s been trying to get her for so long? The thinks the longer you’re trying to get with her, the more reliable you are.
2. Arrogance and sexuality – this is a group of methods used to seduce women from the “fast seduction” category. And in particular what the mainstream “pick-up” specializes in. The woman is taken by a bright, powerful feeling that this guy brings into her life. A guy like this imprints in her memory and the woman sleeps with him because she understands that sleeping with him is something to remember. Adventure. Love experience every woman wants.
3. Beauty – obvious. Ideal mate every woman wants to have babies from. ALL women will hook on natural beauty – it’s instinctive.
4. Money. Apparently you can just offer women money in exchange for sex. To ANY woman. And they probably won’t get upset with you for offering, but they might get upset with the price…because your offer was too low. Unfortunately(Or fortunately?) even a woman with little experience can sometimes hint that she doesn’t mind being “bought” if you put up the right offer. And this also doesn’t mean in straight cash. It can be an expensive gift. The only situation where a woman won’t let you “buy” her is when she wants someone else to “buy” her for even more.
And status is just “The smell of money and comfortable life” – which by itself turns most women on.
5. Romance. Even whores like beautiful, romantic stories. This is like the last shelter for the soul. So they’re ready to believe you if you lie well. This is what I call “romance.”
But this is only if you’re faking feelings.
In their majority, women love sublime, romantic feelings. Remember teary melodramas, stories for women and movies like “Titanic,” “The Phantom Of The Opera,” “Notre Dame De Paris,” etc.
That’s exactly why most women react so damn well to romantic stories and acts, because in their regular life they become very shallow… All in all, the movies, shows and music take on the role of the secret getaway for the feelings that don’t find root in reality.
Another ancient technique, by Ovid:
desire her enough, you’ll be fluent yourself.
Your’s to play the lover, imitate wounds with words:
use whatever skill you have to win her belief.
Don’t think it’s hard: each think’s herself desired:
the very worst take’s pleasure in her looks.
(Deep, I know : – )
In Conclusion:
Take women using whatever you have and don’t worry about it too much.
- If you have money – just buy them and don’t bother learning pick-up techniques. You just need to learn how to offer the money PROPERLY to ANY woman, not just to sluts. The good thing about this approach is that you won’t have to worry about getting out of a relationship with the woman if you stop liking her. And don’t worry about having sex with the “wrong kind of women.” Most, even normal women – are like this.
- If you’re ready to court a woman forever, then be content and don’t worry about pick up techniques. You also don’t really need them. If you want that ONE woman, you don’t need techniques and strategies on how to pick up many other women. Go and take the woman you want with persistence.
- If you are attractive and can emphasize it with great body and clothes, you don’t really have anything to worry about. Techniques will be just a good addition. The MOST important thing for you is to be where the women are and sit among them with half-romantic,half-sad face, without paying attention and looking at them. Women will start approaching you. Chose the one you like the most and don’t give in too soon, she’ll like you more for that.
The study of pick up is for those men who love quick, memorable victories and the feeling of a new woman that you chose and hooked up with. In reality, seducing the woman using the ‘pick-up artist’ arsenal is not a “dish for every table.” Some men do better at work, sports, hobbies, etc.
This is the reality of the situation. Someone who needs to learn how to really seduce women will purchase educational courses or go to seminars. Those who don’t need this knowledge – will spend the money directly on women, a stylist, nice clothes, a car or a plastic surgeon.
by Alex Odessa.
