How To Make Women Feel Attracted?
And they aren’t “just friends…”If you want the girl to like you then you need to make physical contact with her within 1-3 minutes of meeting. Otherwise you’ll just miss the “window of opportunity” where she thinks of you as of a man to sleep with rather than just a friend.
How to touch? Unobtrusively. Touch her elbow nonchalantly. Lean in for a second and put your hand around her waist, then pull back.
And so on.
The goal here is to send her body an impulse and to get her thinking in the right direction.
Some women act strange when you touch them – they jerk and pull away, etc. There are ways to make sure this doesn’t happen, we talk about these techniques in our course.
Touching women isn’t nearly the ONLY way to do this, but it is the most important one.
By Using Compliments
“Your hair looks cute. Did you do something to it?”Compliments are neither good nor bad. They’re just a tool. They’re used to break the ice during the first few minutes. Compliments are good to begin the interaction, but they’re not good for ending it.
When you say a compliment - you add to the interaction energy, the woman relaxes a bit, starts to become more submissive. So move onto the next level of the interaction. Start touching her and building attraction.
For example tell her how good her dress looks and touch the material. Tell her something, lightly touch her shoulder with your hand. Then move on to something else, without bringing attention to it. Make it subtle.
The way I understand how to make approach interesting and effective – is to always stay on the razor’s edge, balancing on what’s appropriate and what’s not (in her understanding and depending on the time you know each other). This is easier to understand on the body language level – her body will tell your body, whether she’s ready or not.
By Using Passion
Fooling around really helps attractionSo how do you get over the fear of rejection and actually make the conversation so good that the woman starts to like you?
Try to get intoxicated off of the woman you’re talking to. If it’s hard for you to cross the line of simple conversation and switch to a more sexual talk, you need to let yourself get intoxicated (without alcohol) and allow yourself and the woman you’re with to do little silly things.
But as far as conversation goes, you can talk about many things:
- About her
- About yourself
- About anything else (movies, books, your thoughts, clothes, advertisements, birds, etc.)
1. I like talk about the woman the most. It’s the easiest way for the girl to like you – she’s doing all the work of entertaining you, not the other way around. A few questions, good listening – and you won’t be able to shut her up. (There’s an awesome way to kiss her during this, which is in my course).
2. Talk about yourself. It’s not as effective, but if something extraordinary happened or is happening in your life – let her know about it. When telling her about your risky endeavors, about something interesting – you can just go right ahead and kiss her at the peak of excitement. Some women react to this really well.
3. Talking about anything, anything at all. Stuff that you’re interested in. Doesn’t matter what you’re talking about, it matters HOW. Women love it when you’re passionate about things. I personally love it too when a woman passionately tells me about something. They get all excited and their eyes light up.
It really doesn’t matter what you’re going to talk about. What’s important is to have passion! To have passion you must love what you’re talking about! This passion adds eloquence to your speech!
If you love something – talk about it. Women listen to the sounds, not the words, women listen to your energy level. They judge you as a person by how passionately you talk and also judge how good you are in bed by how passionately you talk. And most of the time they get it right! Give way to your passion and it will take you wherever you need to go. Through passion you will learn how to get a girl to like you really quick.
To be passionate is to be dangerous. Sometimes women are afraid of this inner passion and tension. But they are turned on by it at the same time.
By Creating Energy Between The Woman and You
Sparks are flying. And that’s good.There’s very little energy in being plain vanilla “nice.”
The energy is where the risk is at. Risk is novelty. If you’re doing something new – it makes you feel even more awesome – and that transfer to the woman you’re with. If you’re doing something that’s new to both of you, then the two of you feel twice as awesome!
Risk isn’t just novelty, it’s a scary novelty. So be ready to be a little scared and anxious to move forward, and that the woman you’re with will be scared and excited at the same time. That means there’s energy present in the interaction. It’s there! Keep risking; your fear will guide you. Don’t repeat and don’t do the same thing over and over. Strive to do new things all the time.
What to do if a woman starts losing interest?
Save me. I’m bored.Use surrounding items or people to keep her interest. If that’s not helping – do as Don Juan taught Castaneda:
Change the location.
“This place has exhausted itself. The energy is gone,” – and take the woman to some other, move eventful place. The place with the most energy is where you can have sex with the woman and ultimately have a great experience together. It could be in your bed, at a football stadium, or at the restroom in the club. But if you still feel the energy draining from the interaction – perhaps the woman you’re with is an energy and resource vampire. So leave that one alone and find a new one.
