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In this article I want to talk about 12 relationship laws every man is required to know.

1. Loving People Who Love You

“Stop creating problems for yourself”

All problems disappear if you stop creating them for yourself. It’s easy to love those who love you… But us humans are always unsatisfied with what we got and we’re always striving  to achieve perfection. With some women this aspiration turns into a pathology and if she is liked by someone, she automatically labels that guy as a loser.  And that’s because her self esteem is so low that she actually thinks no normal guy can like her. And eventually she’s left with only losers in her life.  It’s easy to spot people like this. They (especially women) say things like:

“Why do I always get hit on by losers?”

or

“I can never find a normal guy”

Now that’s a sign of low self esteem right there.

And on the other side of the spectrum we have an attractive, confident woman with a powerful potential of a temptress who tries to find something good in every man she meets (along with useful things these men can do for her).

See the difference?

Love those who love you and you will be surrounded by a very large number of caring and loving people. Then if they stop loving you, there’s nothing easier than to get out of the problematic relationship. That’s why if a woman wants to be with me she must be well behaved.

That’s exactly why when I find out that a certain woman likes me, I give her extra points:

“She must have good taste because she likes me. I need to pay closer attention to her.”

2.Loving the Most Patient and Persistent

(traditionally a method used by women, now revealed to men).

“Patient and persistent women”

The key here is to let women love you. And to open your eyes wide to see the women who are willing to do it.

These women could be among your friends or be plentiful while you’re walking down the street or sitting at a bar. These women want to love and give themselves to someone and think that maybe you are the man she’s ready to give herself to.

To notice women like this on the streets – use the technique I mentioned here and you’ll get dozens of women.

But remember:

letting women love you doesn’t mean that you’re ready to sleep with any of them.

This is exactly how you put yourself in a woman’s shoes. That’s what women do. Love for a man is to get the girl. Love for a woman is to answer the love of the most persistent man, who’s better all other men competing for her.

What you’re doing here is choosing the best woman out of all women that are available. And she’s choosing the best guy from a group of men who court her. That’s the relationship psychology. If you were a woman that’s exactly how you would have to act. Women don’t have any other strategy. That’s the only one they got. And they do pretty well with it.

So now you have two strategies for attracting women. You can act man-like, go out and pick out any woman you like,  or woman-like – choose a woman from a group of women who already like you.

3. Cruelty And Kindness Training

“Big, obedient cat”

Lately I’ve become a lot smoother and don’t play the “cruelty” game anymore. I only use it to punish when women do something I don’t like. And when women do what I like – I reward that and give more love.

But between regular people it works backwards: when a woman he loves pulls away, a man tries to be NICER and does more things for her. And when the woman he loves starts treating him too nice – he starts acting like a smug asshole. During the long-term relationship do the OPPOSITE and you’ll reap the greatest benefits. That’s how tiger trainers turn a vicious predator into a big, obedient cat.

4. You Need To Make Women Think About You

Doesn’t matter good or bad thoughts. When thinking of you, she’s working up energy that’s exclusively addressed towards you. For her to release this energy and get rid of emotions – she needs you. Another guy won’t do – she’s gotta have YOU.

Both rough and soft methods of making women think about you work. Even gifts need to be given with a certain purpose:  women needs to see your gift often so it reminds them of you. That’s exactly why women love giving their own photos, cups, etc. to guys.

5. Take Risks If You Don’t Want To End Up In The “Friend Zone”

Why does the conversation become boring between the man and woman?

Because they both try very hard to avoid talking about the elephant in the room...

What’s the elephant in the room?

The elephant in the room is the FACT that women and men are different and that you don’t need to try to conceal your manly qualities that make us different from them. For example, she knows that sex will happen eventually. So don’t act like sex between men and women is something taboo and shouldn’t be talked about at all. Don’t necessarily bring it up, but rather accept it as something natural.

6. Create Tests and Hardships in the Relationship

“Living through hardships”

A woman can, and most importantly WANTS to live through different hardships in her relationship with a man. Women think they’re living a passionate and interesting life when there’s always something going on. That’s how they decide that they’re in love. Coming over her pride for the sake of your relationship makes her decide that she’s in live with you.

She might be laying on your chest one day, about to fall asleep – then realize how much she went through with you and start feeling “in love” all of the sudden.

7. What To Do If A Girl Just Dumped You

“The Manual”

Don’t be chasing after the low tide. You won’t catch up anyway. Just wait for the high tide. Obviously, you’ll need to learn how to wait. Sometimes you need to wait for a long time to meet the woman in which you invested so much of your own energy again.

And sometimes you wait to simply strike back, for revenge. A counter strike is more painful. When you’re trying to hurt the woman who’s already leaving – she doesn’t  care. She’s leaving anyway. But it’s totally different when you’re striking towards a burst of emotions of your partner, when she’s wanting to come back – now there’s a chance to hurt her self-esteem and get the feelings back… You just need to wait.

The irony is that this law always works. The more time passes, the more the probability of her coming back increases. This is a fact that’s been proven over and over. The probability of this happening in this big cities is 101%. The woman you did many things for – will never forget it. You’ll become known as “the guy who treated me the best” in her book. So she will remind you of her, maybe not very often, but she will. Use that.

8. The Law of Love Energy Conservation

The energy you invested in the woman you love didn’t just disappear, it just changed the form.

9. Treating Love Like Gasoline

If you love a woman and she’s indifferent to you, you need to burn all of the “love gasoline.” Try courting her or making her come back, until you just get lazy and tired of trying. That means that all of the “love gasoline” has been burnt. I personally used to have lots of “gas” in me, I could do a lot for a woman without expecting anything in return, until I got bored and tired of it.

Right now I get bored and tired really quick and I don’t even have enough “gas” for basic flowers or words…

Right now it’s like:

“Make your mind up faster, I got 10 more women waiting…”

Now, here’s a practical example of how you can use this law:

Let’s say you set up a date with a woman.  You’ve been waiting for very long and she still isn’t there. You KNOW that she’s not going to come to the date at all but you’re still standing there, waiting. What for??? To burn the gas!

Why burn the gas in such useless way? Well, if she was an important person in your life you’d be burning gas by trying to get her back or to  get her to come to the date. But since you’ve only seen her only a few times, now you’re destroying any traces of your affection for her. In an hour you’ll start hating her because you’ve been standing there waiting for her for so long. And as soon as you become bored out of your mind and tired of waiting and you start noticing other attractive women – you’ve destroyed all attachment to this woman with this simple action.

10. The Law of Vampiric Relationships

“Scared yet?”

Most of the time the women who were indifferent to you when you loved them were energy vampires. They suck energy out of several men at the same time, without giving anything back because they’re feeding their own unanswered feelings towards some other energy vampire.

Remember, energy can’t just disappear – it turns from one into another. When a woman takes something from you and doesn’t return the favor that’s because she’s giving it to someone else.

Now, these vampires are not capable of putting an end to their own exhausting relationships so they’re forced to feed on the side. Energy vampires don’t understand with their chicken brains that they’re actually capable of putting an end to this drainage of emotions. And only when you’re off her hook – you have a chance to change things. To get off her hook means to become totally indifferent towards her and her games, and tell her straight up about what it is you want. Doesn’t matter if she likes that or not.

11. Temptress – The Price of Love

Tempting You

The most experienced temptresses  easily allow men to love them, but aren’t in a rush to sleep with these guys. They’re very positive, great to talk to and other nice things, like flirting with you, smiling at you, getting really excited when they see you and when you call. (Scam artists always let their victims win first, too. ; – ))) But as soon as your conversation and relationship goes deeper – they put a price on it.

This is supposed to be the painful part of the relationship, used to pump resources out of you. And be sure that she has several guys like you who are ready to give her what she needs, if you don’t.

A little later she’ll show you her other men so that you don’t think that you’re the only one who wants her. And her most favorite torture of all is to hug and cuddle with some other good-looking, attractive guy right in front of you. (Sometimes I act as that attractive guy for my girl-friends when they ask for that favor). And you don’t even know that they’re just friends. And that guy is just returning the favor which your woman will then do for him in front of his women, who he’s trying to game.

It’s just a game she plays.

And right after a woman used these techniques on you, you start thinking about her waaay too often when she’s not around. And that’s why you fall for her.

12. And Again, Love Those Who Love You

The wisest thing you can learn in life and in relationships – is to learn those who love you. And it isn’t only wise but also noble… (because to answer to someone’s love is a noble act and there is some sacrifice in it)… and very favorable.

If you let yourself be loved, when you’re in a relationship with a woman – you’re getting much more resources from a woman than if you “did the loving.”

I remember arguing with someone who liked bitchy women and wanted to prove me wrong. I explained to him the way I, in some way,  act like a “bitchy woman” – so why would I need another one?

On the contrary, I choose women who want to give love and this way I achieve two things:

1.Personal growth – because I can see the woman for who she really is and not make the decision based on her deceptive looks.

2.Gifts from the universe – I get whatever it is these women want to share with me because I’m with her and give her an opportunity to be happy with me.

And if you realize the merciful deepness of this love, you will love back. And then you can just relax and enjoy yourself in an incredible relationship.

And for those who say that this approach does not allow you to chose the most beautiful women out there, but instead have to settle for whoever likes you, I can say one thing:

Well, you don’t get every woman that you want  anyway. You get only a percentage of those who you pursue.

When you turn up your attraction magnet to the max it’s similar to catching fish with a net. You get totally different fish, different colors and sizes. And a percentage of them will be women who you chose with great pleasure and satisfaction.

By Alex Odessa
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This article is just a tip of the iceberg. A lot of additional information is left behind the curtain. Not only the laws of how the relationship psychology works or psychological emotion analysis and the dynamics of passion development, but also various methods of domination and manipulative ways of controlling the relationships. And also ways to avoid being used by women, how to put women in place and building the relationships YOU want – all this is covered during our live trainings and in our products.

“Go for it now or later?”

The more I meet women the more I realize that waiting for the second date to hook up  isn’t necessary. Fast seduction becomes more and more standard. A lot of things are possible on the first date, so try to get as far as you can. Don’t rush things, your goal is to start touching her when she’s waiting for it and wants it to happen. When that happens, two of you will have “sex thoughts” simultaneously.

And for that to happen you will need to clearly define your interest towards her body, but without taking it too far.

A few strategic, “accidental” touches in her near-intimate zone will do the trick:

Move your fingers across her shoulders, hold her waist while sliding your hand down for a second, grab her shoulders and pull her in to yourself, while slightly petting her neck and the back of her head. You can start doing more intimate things, but only after you’ve build up trust with her. More accurately, within half an hour or an hour. It’s important to pull her out of her “hang out” mode and take a few hours of her time.

Here are the steps that often lead to a very fast seduction:

1. When you’re just meeting women, inject sexual energy into the interaction by using eye contact flirting, intriguing pauses, confident body language, light touching, dominant gestures and straight, courageous talk.

2. Make her change her plans for the next few hours. You need to MOVE the woman away from the place where you’ve met – doesn’t matter where, you need to make her follow you so she recognizes you as the leader.

3. Taking her to the right place isn’t enough. You need to keep talking to her body by touching her. You also need to touch her to understand more about her, to get the feel for the situation and understand how much she’s really into you.

4. Pass her shit-tests. If you’ve done everything right the shit-tests will be as such:

• To check how persistent you are.

• To check how dominating and confident you are (She’ll challenge you by looking you straight in the eye, using words, actions)

If you pass all her shit-tests, you’ll get a “reward.” And don’t be afraid to use what Ovid wrote in his “The Art Of Love” a few thousand years ago:

“Perhaps she’ll struggle, and then say ‘you’re wicked’:
struggling she still wants, herself, to be conquered.
Only, take care her lips aren’t bruised by snatching,
and that she can’t complain that you were harsh.
Who takes a kiss, and doesn’t take the rest,
deserves to lose all that were granted too.
How much short of your wish are you after that kiss?

Ah me, that was boorishness stopped you not modesty.
Though you call it force: it’s force that pleases girls: what delights
is often to have given what they wanted, against their will.
She who is taken in love’s sudden onslaught
is pleased, and finds wickedness is a tribute.
And she who might have been forced, and escapes unscathed,
will be saddened, though her face pretends delight.”

5. Move on to making out and petting right on the spot. When your woman gets turned on she’ll let you know she’s ready to “get out of  here” and go to the place where you can be alone.

Long Seduction

Probably their 3rd date…?

In reality, fast seduction isn’t the only way to hook up with a woman. Many girls prefer to “marinate” a man for quite some time before they have sex with him.

The important point here is to avoid the mistake most men make:

In particular – don’t think too much about the woman BEFORE you have sex with her. It’s not good “management” to pour too much attention, thoughts and resources in the woman before you sleep with her anyway.

There’s a group of special techniques and strategies which you can use to create a prolonged “siege” of a woman’s bed, without spending too much time, energy and money. About that in our next course.

But you simply need to remember that before you sleep with a woman – she’s really nobody to you. Just one woman out of a million. This of course goes against women’s fantasies about courting and wooing  and the games they play with men. This is exactly why the time works for you now (She gets used to you and you don’t really take her seriously) and against her (You’re pulling her resources of time, emotions and thoughts towards yourself).

Review Of Various Seduction Methods:

Briefly on methods, which you can use to take women:

1. Perseverance and patience

2. Arrogance and sexuality

3. Beauty

4. Money and status

5. Romance

1. Any man can break down the woman’s resistance sooner or later by strategically calling and persistently trying to hook up with her. Women can’t resist benevolent persistence of a man who isn’t letting her go. Women are amazed when a man, who obviously has no chances of getting with her, keeps trying to get together with her. She yields to his persistence and gives herself to him.

Why?

Because it’s an evolutionary mechanism – to get with a male who’s RELIABLE. Who could be more reliable then the guy who’s been trying to get her for so long? The thinks the longer you’re trying to get with her, the more reliable you are.

2. Arrogance and sexuality – this is a group of methods used to seduce women from the “fast seduction” category. And in particular what the mainstream “pick-up” specializes in. The woman is taken by a bright, powerful feeling that this guy brings into her life.  A guy like this imprints in her memory and the woman sleeps with him because she understands that sleeping with him is something to remember. Adventure. Love experience every woman wants.

3. Beauty – obvious. Ideal mate every woman wants to have babies from. ALL women will hook on natural beauty – it’s instinctive.

4. Money. Apparently you can just offer women money in exchange for sex. To ANY woman. And they probably won’t get upset with you for offering, but they might get upset with the price…because your offer was too low. Unfortunately(Or fortunately?) even a woman with little experience can sometimes hint that she doesn’t mind being “bought” if you put up the right offer. And this also doesn’t mean in straight cash. It can be an expensive gift. The only situation where a woman won’t let you “buy” her is when she wants someone else to “buy” her for even more.

And status is just “The smell of money and comfortable life” – which by itself turns most women on.

5. Romance. Even whores like beautiful, romantic stories. This is like the last shelter for the soul. So they’re ready to believe you if you lie well. This is what I call “romance.”

But this is only if you’re faking feelings.

In their majority, women love sublime, romantic feelings. Remember teary melodramas, stories for women and movies like “Titanic,” “The Phantom Of The Opera,” “Notre Dame De Paris,” etc.

That’s exactly why most women react so damn well to romantic stories and acts, because in their regular life they become very shallow… All in all, the movies, shows and music take on the role of the secret getaway for the feelings that don’t find root in reality.

Another ancient technique, by Ovid:

desire her enough, you’ll be fluent yourself.
Your’s to play the lover, imitate wounds with words:
use whatever skill you have to win her belief.
Don’t think it’s hard: each think’s herself desired:
the very worst take’s pleasure in her looks.

(Deep, I know : – )

In Conclusion:

Take women using whatever you have and don’t worry about it too much.

• If you have money – just buy them and don’t bother learning pick-up techniques. You just need to learn how to offer the money PROPERLY to ANY woman, not just to sluts. The good thing about this approach is that you won’t have to worry about getting out of a relationship with the woman if you stop liking her. And don’t worry about having sex with the “wrong kind of women.” Most, even normal women – are like this.

• If you’re ready to court a woman forever, then be content and don’t worry about pick up techniques. You also don’t really need them. If you want that ONE woman, you don’t need techniques and strategies on how to pick up many other women. Go and take the woman you want with persistence.

• If you are attractive and can emphasize it with great body and clothes, you don’t really have anything to worry about. Techniques will be just a good addition. The MOST important thing for you is to be where the women are and sit among them with half-romantic,half-sad face, without paying attention and looking at them. Women will start approaching you. Chose the one you like the most and don’t give in too soon, she’ll like you more for that.

The study of pick up is for those men who love quick, memorable victories and the feeling of a new woman that you chose and hooked up with. In reality, seducing the woman using the ‘pick-up artist’ arsenal is not a “dish for every table.” Some men do better at work, sports, hobbies, etc.

This is the reality of the situation. Someone who needs to learn how to really seduce women will purchase educational courses or go to seminars. Those who don’t need this knowledge – will spend the money directly on women, a stylist, nice clothes, a car or a plastic surgeon.

by Alex Odessa.

And they aren’t “just friends…”

If you want the girl to like you then you need to make physical contact with her within 1-3 minutes of meeting. Otherwise you’ll just miss the “window of opportunity” where she thinks of you as of a man to sleep with rather than just a friend.

How to touch? Unobtrusively. Touch her elbow nonchalantly. Lean in for a second and put your hand around her waist, then pull back.

And so on.

The goal here is to send her body an impulse and to get her thinking in the right direction.

Some women act strange when you touch them – they jerk and pull away, etc. There are ways to make sure this doesn’t happen, we talk about these techniques in our course.

Touching women isn’t nearly the ONLY way to do this, but it is the most important one.

By Using Compliments

“Your hair looks cute. Did you do something to it?”

Compliments are neither good nor bad. They’re just a tool. They’re used to break the ice during the first few minutes. Compliments are good to begin the interaction, but they’re not good for ending it.

When you say a compliment -  you add to the interaction energy, the woman relaxes a bit, starts to become more submissive. So move onto the next level of the interaction. Start touching her and building attraction.

For example tell her how good her dress looks and touch the material. Tell her something, lightly touch her shoulder with your hand. Then move on to something else, without bringing attention to it. Make it subtle.

The way I understand how to make approach interesting and effective – is to always stay on the razor’s edge, balancing on what’s appropriate and what’s not (in her understanding and depending on the time you know each other). This is easier to understand on the body language level – her body will tell your body, whether she’s ready or not.

By Using Passion

Fooling around really helps attraction

So how do you get over the fear of rejection and actually make the conversation so good that the woman starts to like you?

Try to get intoxicated off of the woman you’re talking to. If it’s hard for you to cross the line of simple conversation and switch to a more sexual talk, you need to let yourself get intoxicated (without alcohol) and allow yourself and the woman you’re with to do little silly things.

But as far as conversation goes, you can talk about many things:

• About her

• About yourself

• About anything else (movies, books, your thoughts, clothes, advertisements, birds, etc.)

1. I like talk about the woman the most. It’s the easiest way for the girl to like you – she’s doing all the work of entertaining you, not the other way around. A few questions, good listening – and you won’t be able to shut her up. (There’s an awesome way to kiss her during this, which is in my course).

2. Talk about yourself. It’s not as effective, but if something extraordinary happened or is happening in your life – let her know about it. When telling her about your risky endeavors, about something interesting – you can just go right ahead and kiss her at the peak of excitement. Some women react to this really well.

3. Talking about anything, anything at all. Stuff that you’re interested in. Doesn’t matter what you’re talking about, it matters HOW. Women love it when you’re passionate about things. I personally love it too when a woman passionately tells me about something. They get all excited and their eyes light up.

It really doesn’t matter what you’re going to talk about. What’s important is to have passion! To have passion you must love what you’re talking about! This passion adds eloquence to your speech!

If you love something – talk about it. Women listen to the sounds, not the words, women listen to your energy level. They judge you as a person by how passionately you talk and also judge how good you are in bed by how passionately you talk. And most of the time they get it right! Give way to your passion and it will take you wherever you need to go. Through passion you will learn how to get a girl to like you really quick.

To be passionate is to be dangerous. Sometimes women are afraid of this inner passion and tension. But they are turned on by it at the same time.

By Creating Energy Between The Woman and You

Sparks are flying. And that’s good.

There’s very little energy in being plain vanilla “nice.”

The energy is where the risk is at. Risk is novelty. If you’re doing something new – it makes you feel even more awesome – and that transfer to the woman you’re with. If you’re doing something that’s new to both of you, then the two of you feel twice as awesome!

Risk isn’t just novelty, it’s a scary novelty. So be ready to be a little scared and anxious to move forward, and that the woman you’re with will be scared and excited at the same time. That means there’s energy present in the interaction. It’s there! Keep risking; your fear will guide you. Don’t repeat and don’t do the same thing over and over. Strive to do new things all the time.

What to do if a woman starts losing interest?

Save me. I’m bored.

Use surrounding items or people to keep her interest. If that’s not helping – do as Don Juan taught Castaneda:

Change the location.

“This place has exhausted itself. The energy is gone,” – and take the woman to some other, move eventful place. The place with the most energy is where you can have sex with the woman and ultimately have a great experience together. It could be in your bed, at a football stadium, or at the restroom in the club. But if you still feel the energy draining from the interaction – perhaps the woman you’re with is an energy and resource vampire. So leave that one alone and find a new one.

The Reality Of Meeting Women

Fantasies and Reality…

We can talk for hours about what it is you want and what you’re afraid of. But nothing clears your mind up quicker than a good bite of the reality: there’s you and your fears, and then there’s reality.

And guess what?

The reality doesn’t care what you’re thinking. The reality simply gives you facts, and you fantasize:

• “What would happen if I approached this beautiful woman… and she liked me… ”

But at the same the same reality provides you with information for negative thoughts like-

• “She’ll for sure reject me. I’m out of her league…” – and that stops you cold from going up and talking to a woman you like.

So there you have it. So now all thinking about “what could be” and “what would happen” needs to go so that you can be left one on one with results, things you can do right now (maybe start conversations with women) and things you can’t yet do (Get these women to go on dates with you, for  example). If not being able to get what you WANT to have makes you feel frustrated – then you have motivation to accomplish what needs to be done in order to succeed. And I will help you in that.

Let’s keep on.

Anxiety And Approaching Women

Approaching with courage

I hear a lot of people saying that you have to totally eliminate your anxiety to become more confident with women. Hate to spoil the fun, but that’s not how it works, folks.

• And here’s the trick: don’t hold back or in any way try to eliminate your anxiety.

MOST guys try to achieve TOTAL confidence when it comes to meeting women. From personal experience I can say that I always worked towards getting this TOTAL confidence down when approaching women (where no fear or anxiety exists) and  there were times when I totally had it one day, and then another day it would just disappear. Vanish. So the feeling of total confidence wasn’t ever constant. It was off and on.

And You know what that made me realize??

• This feeling of anxiety is like fuel.

Without anxiety meeting women turns into a boring, routine, everyday thing. If you’re not getting any emotions out of meeting and talking to women, then you just lose all motivation to go out and talk to women at all.

Why would you even want women around you if they don’t make you feel anything??

Here’s also something that no one else will tell you, something that only women know:

Women actually sort of like it when men that approach them are somewhat anxious. Especially women that are over 25 years old. They will actually help you out too and make it so that you worry less. (Sounds unbelievable, but it’s true. Try it out and you’ll see.)

When you’re nervous and anxious, jokingly say this to a woman :

• “You just made me so nervous it’s hard to even talk right now.” And smile.

Contrary to popular belief, confidence is not important. What’s more important is courage! Want to know how to develop this courage to approach women? Well, here’s the “How-To”:

Approach a woman, say something to her, talk for a little bit, then leave. You’ll be thinking:

“Wow. Holy shit. Did I really just do that? Did I really go up to that girl and started talking to her? Is this really me?”

At first you will be amazed and blown away. But two or three days later it will become a part of you and you’ll be thinking:

“Hell yeah I did it. Why wouldn’t I go up and talk to that girl over there?”

Now get this: you don’t need to go out and approach women day-in and day-out just to practice. Just do it a few times. Have courage to approach women, and actually go out and approach them. Your opinion about yourself WILL change from “I’m a man who can’t approach women” to “I’m a man who now CAN.” That’s what’s important here.

Confidence with women comes after you’ve mustered the courage to approach and talk to them. Before that you can read all you want, but you still need to take the first step.

Sometimes you won’t feel sure about your abilities, even though you approached women before. During those times you will need to approach women by stepping over your doubt. During these “unsure” times you learn the most.

How Do I Get Motivated Enough To Start Approaching Women?

Can’t Muster Enough Courage?

If you need extra motivation, do this:

By yourself, head over to downtown. (It’s best if its summertime, otherwise this won’t be as effective.) Walk around and just look at all of the beautiful women there. (Their sexy faces, asses, etc.)   You can walk around and look, but you can’t approach them or start conversations. Some of these women will look at you and invite you to come talk to them, but don’t do it. Don’t give in just yet.

Keep walking around and looking at these beautiful women, until you start feeling like a total fucking loser for not approaching them (speaking from personal experience here).

Some guys will need to do this for a day, two, three or more. Some guys only need 20 minutes.  The pressure will be so intense that you will be literally FORCED to go and talk to some of these women. The force to approach women will come from the inside of you. Your fear will disappear and you will just start approaching. I’m not kidding, this is very powerful. The point here is that you go and do this ALONE and not with your buddies.

Will I Need A Wingman Or Not?

Wingmen at work

If you’re a beginner it’s best if you go out and meet women by yourself.

Why?

Because if there’s more than one person, you form a party. A party of two or more people is closed and self-sufficient in itself. So when there are two or more people present you have someone to talk to, someone to exchange emotions with and someone to unite with in case you’re anxious or afraid.

When you’re alone, like a free radical, you’re actively seeking to connect with someone and form a balanced structure (party). So if you start walking around with a friend trying to meet women, everything will just turn into a hang-out with your friend. If you’re going by yourself – this is the REAL deal. And this is where you’ll learn.

So approach the women that aren’t in a hurry and that are by themselves. These women are “free radicals” as well, and they would like to have someone to talk to and share their emotions with as well, if they’re by themselves. You can even play it out like it was meant for you two to meet and start build a strong emotional connection with a woman on the spot.

What To Do If I Just Don’t Feel Like Approaching Women?

Here’s  Some Motivation For Ya…

Step 1– You already know this one. Just walk around beautiful women and “gather” motivation. (For advanced users – walk around, wink and smile at women).

Step 2 – Find THE most beautiful and seemingly unapproachable women that most men around are even afraid to look at. Go ahead and approach her. Tell her the most sincere compliment you can come up with. Start saying it as soon as they can hear you – even from a distance. Here you need to make it sound like you’re a very enthused asshole who just saw a thing of beauty and is awestruck by it. You need to say it loud and confident. Like this:

“Damn. This is the most beautiful girl I’ve seen today.”

The women you approach for this need to be extremely beautiful. You’ll automatically think of a compliment right on the spot. You can even say something like “Woah…” or “Damn…” to get start things off… but then you actually gotta say something to her!

Step 3 – After doing that you’ll be pumped and excited so keep doing the same thing.

It’s a paradox, but it’s best to start from the most beautiful women and just go down from there to the level of women you feel you can deal with. So start with the most beauituful, hot, sexy ones and say whatever you want to them, even if it feels awkward to you.  It’s important that you remember how good you feel after approaching women like this.

You know, I once used to anchor this feeling to an object. I anchored it to my sunglasses. It seemed to me that one particular pair of sunglasses was lucky (because I picked up and hooked up with the most beautiful women wearing them). So when I went out to specifically meet women, I’d wear the lucky sunglasses. And each time I put them on, the feeling of excitement and confidence came over me. So each time a symbolical item like this would break, it’d turn into a little tragedy for me. But then I’d get another pair of “magic sunglasses” and everything would repeat again.

Method Of Approach (How To Actually Approach Women)

Working the group.

There are many. We can split them into two categories:

1^St Group –  “Warm-up” Approaches

You can add to the techniques described above by using another “warm-up” technique that’s been used for centuries.

And that technique is playfully “not letting the woman pass”. I’ll describe it in much more detail in another article. But the gist of it is to “accidentally” bump into a woman that you like and start the conversation. This has been described by Ovid, in his “The Art Of Love”:

Join the crowd, and softly approach her,

Let fingers brush her thigh, and foot touch foot.

Now’s the time to speak to her!

2^nd Group – Real Approaches

These approaches can be separated in the following categories:

1. Static approach (standing still) and dynamic (when on the move);

2. With a reason (an event that connects both of you or a forced connection situation) and without any reason (no reason to talk to each other);

3. When you have something to catch onto (She looked at you, said something to someone, something interesting in the way she looks or she’s holding some item which you can talk about, anything goes here) – and when you don’t have anything to catch onto (In other words you can’t think of shit to say.)

4. Face-to-face approach, or approach from behind.

5. Approach-action and approach-conversation.

6. Approaching one woman or many at the same time.

Obviously, it’s the easiest to approach if you’re standing still, have a reason, have something to catch onto to start the conversation, face-to-face and approaching one woman with a conversation.  This is the line of the least resistance from both sides. All the social norms are intact – approaching the woman is inevitable in this situation. And it would also go along very smoothly, like a regular socially-acceptable meeting of two people. BUT you can also engineer an approach-friendly situation like this.

It’s best to approach women following the line of least resistance, from the simplest situations up to the situations where you’ll have to come up with reasons to go up and start the conversation.

But when you don’t have a reason to approach, pick up lines work best. The more simple they are the more real they sound.

• “Listen, you’re so cute I had to come here and talk to you.  I won’t ever be able to forgive myself if we never meet again. What’s your number?”

So if you REALLY like the girl it would literally take 2 minutes to get her number, with simplicity and sincerity.

It’s also important for you to know that the line of least and most resistance is different for everybody. And your objective is to become a universal. In other words, your objective is to learn how to meet women from of all these situations with equal effectiveness. Then the question “Where to meet women” becomes obsolete because you’ll be able to meet women anywhere.
P.S. One more sub-category of approach.

7. With chances (When a woman is somewhat reachable) and without any chances (When she’s looking at you from a window of a car passing by, etc.)

Without chances: In this situation I try to act just like the women when they are put in a similar situation ( Women become unusually friendly and approachable in safe situations). I smile, show them the tongue, wink or wave. Women react very well to this, returning the favor and sometimes going above and beyond and doing something outrageous.

I waved and winked – they flashed me their boobs and laughed. Go figure.

Ready To Use Pick Up Lines

“Hey, what’s your name?”

There was a time when I approached women very often, many times a day. During that time I got really lazy and tired of coming up with creative lines and what worked pretty well was this line:

-“Hey, what’s your name? I’m George.”

• This needs to be said not like a question, but more like a statement. Saying it like a statement conveys determination and decisiveness (strong manly traits).

• When you say it like a statement and not a question she understands that you’re not trying to sell her magazine subscriptions and you’re not some creepy-ass stalker. She sees that you’re just a regular guy who wants to meet her.

For beginners, I think that’s a good line precisely because you don’t have your body language down just yet. When you don’t have your non-verbal shit together and approach a girl you’re sending a lot of mixed signals because you’re nervous and anxious. So she doesn’t know what it is that you want from her. Your nervous body language might be telling her that you want to take her around the corner and kill her, or she’s got her guard up because you’re making yourself look like you want to steal her purse….. you get the general idea. In the very beginning you almost always give out the wrong vibe.

So that phrase explains many things to the girl you’re approaching and she’s not on the defensive anymore, because she knows you like her and just want to talk. (And when she drops her guard you can go for her purse. Just kidding. : – )

As soon as you start getting your body language together, you can start approaching women in any ways you want. They can instantly see that you’re a man in demand and know exactly why you’re approaching (You’re going to give her that which she deserves – your attention and sex).

She can also see how you behave around her (Smiling, confidently making eye contact, not afraid to slip in a little pause before starting to talk. All this shows her that you know your own strong sides, don’t like waste your words and time).

So for the beginner this is a very good line.

• -“Hey, what’s your name? I’m *******.”

You can also add “You’re just so cute I had to come here and talk to you”

OR

“Listen, you’re so cute. What’s your name?

Positive And Negative Expectations

Expect the best

To be successful at approaching and attracting women it’s very important to expect positive things to happen. Expect positive things to come from yourself, from the world, from the woman and from the situation.

This is a pretty big topic, as people in general tend to think negatively.

For example:

Your chance to win $10,000 if only 1 person is randomly picked out from a crowd of 100 people seems pretty slim.   However, this same 1 out of 100 chance seems very large and risky when 1 person gets randomly pulled out of a line of 100 people and taken to death.

Successful people who had positive experience before get to their goals much faster because they don’t get in their own way. They KNOW how to put their negative fantasies aside and think about the result in positive ways.

However, many supporters of negative thinking say that you won’t be prepared for the failure if you only think positively.

Now, when approaching and meeting women you need to believe in yourself enough to know that when something goes wrong – you will deal with it easily. And have the courage to act as if you could get no negative reaction at all.

Men who prepare for negative outcomes can’t use full potential, because they’re holding something back just in case of a failure. Because of this false sense of security they miss the chance to succeed… and ultimately fail. Counter intuitive, isn’t it?

This aspiration to “not look dumb if you take action and it fails” REALLY gets in the way of success. Very often instead of approaching the woman head-on and risking rejection, the guy stays put (in his car, on the bar seat) and only yells something remotely rude to her like “Hey, nice tits!” or something along those lines.

The goal of this behavior is NOT to meet the woman, get her number and then hook up with her, but just to make sure HE doesn’t look like a loser in front of his friends and other people. If a woman after his lame ass comment shows him the finger, he can tell his friends “I was just fucking around with her. She’s not that hot anyway!”

And guess what? That guy never gets the girl. And never will if he keeps keeps doing what he’s doing.

So always be confident in your charms. When approaching a woman you always have to come from a place where it’s a given that she’ll like you! And you also need to trust yourself enough to know that if you DO get rejected, you’ll deal with it easily.

Giving Out Positive Energy

Shining like the sun

Your objective is to share positive energy with people. Compliments, smiles, etc. You are not interested in the practical results. You’re only interested in growing your personal power and the belief that you can freely talk to many people. By doing this you’re also growing the belief in yourself that you’re the bigger man, who gives out compliments, smiles and reassures women in their beauty.

If a woman doesn’t react to your positive approach in any way – don’t get upset. Just keep on going. Instead of giving your energy to someone who can’t accept it, give it to a woman or a girl who will gladly take it and give some in return.

You will see that the women you talk to will literally melt when you talk to them. You will also feel when you need to stop and talk to the women you just smiled at. And you’ll also feel when you need to just keep going.

If all of the sudden your confidence drops (I know, on some days you feel down) – remember that you possess this incredible positive energy that women love. So if you start doubting yourself, go out and give out more positive energy to beautiful women: – )

Concept Of A Friendly Universe

Hello

When you’re able to give this energy to everybody and accept the “gifts from the universe’ (more beautiful women, their attention and smiles, all for you) – then you can move onto more advanced things. For example, creating your own “Zones of Influence” where everything happens as YOU wish.

So in the very beginning try to establish the connection with the friendly forces of the universe and carefully look what kind of present you’re getting this time. Try to take the gift, and if you don’t like it – you’ll have time to reject it.

Small children are living in so-called Paradise, the world gives them so many amazing gifts – for example, just a candy wrapper that they find laying on the ground – is an amazing gift! So they try to put it in their mouth… just like all kids do… : ) because they’re trying to figure out what the world has given them this time! And if what they find doesn’t taste good – they’ll spit it right out.  So be like that kid, take in the positive and don’t let anything negative get in the way of your success with women.

Article by Alex Odessa.

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